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June 22, 2021 - Being Different Is No Joke

 

 

 

Racism Is No Joke .

‘The Joker is a little fool who is different from everyone else.  He’s not a club, diamond, heart, or spade.  He’s not an eight or a nine, a King or a Jack.  He is an outsider.  He is placed in the same pack as the other cards, but he doesn’t belong there.  Therefore, he can be removed without anybody missing him.’

Jostein Gaarder.

‘Joker and Impossible Things’.

June 18, 2021 - Me and I

 

me and i image

 

I am I .   (Barbara Blackman from book, ‘Glass After Glass’)

I am I and no other.  Not other has or ever can be this I.    It came into me as a baby.    Is the same I as in me now, a little girl, the same I that will be in me as I grow, as a grown-up, as an old old lady, and on beyond that.   What happens to this I is the ME that other people can see, acting out all this life.    So it will be all right whatever happens to ME because the inner secret I can never be changed or lost.

(Art by Charles Blackman , ‘Christabel and Her Image’ , 1966.  Original in colour.)

Reposted from 5th May, 2014

June 11, 2021 - My Octopus Teacher

 

A surprising story of how an Octopus lifts a man from the depths of a mental struggle.

May 10, 2021 - Reduce The World’s Net Suffering

An answer from, Nick Cave, The Red Hand Files …

My question is about how you perceive the utility of suffering.  What is the value of suffering to us as individuals, and to us as a species …

 

 

Nick Cave in Yorkstrabe, West Berlin, 1985.  Photograph by Bleddyn Butcher.

Dear Peter,

What do we do with suffering? As far as I can see, we have two choices—we either transform our suffering into something else, or we hold on to it, and eventually pass it on.

In order to transform our pain, we must acknowledge that all people suffer. By understanding that suffering is the universal unifying force, we can see people more compassionately, and this goes some way toward helping us forgive the world and ourselves. By acting compassionately we reduce the world’s net suffering, and defiantly rehabilitate the world. It is an alchemical act that transforms pain into beauty. This is good. This is beautiful.

To not transform our suffering and instead transmit our pain to others, in the form of abuse, torture, hatred, misanthropy, cynicism, blaming and victimhood, compounds the world’s suffering. Most sin is simply one person’s suffering passed on to another. This is not good. This is not beautiful.

The utility of suffering, then, is the opportunity it affords us to become better human beings. It is the engine of our redemption.

Love, Nick

May 5, 2021 - Feel Things Changing

 

 

April 20, 2021 - Buy Into It – Or Not

 

Repost from 2014.  Before social media added to the erosion of self…

 

buy into it or not

 

Image by Banksy.  Text below by Kalle Lasn, Founder of Adbusters Media Foundation.  Source:  ‘The Gruen Transfer’ book.

“Rather than child proofing the world, we need to world proof our children” *

 

“There’s anything between 1000 and 3000 marketing messages entering the average brain every day.  I believe our brains are simply not capable of absorbing that level of advertising.  One of the reasons advertising causes mental illness is because of the weight of that onslaught, the sheer number of hits to the brain.

And then, on a secondary level, many ads are psychologically abusive.  Many ads amount to emotional blackmail.  Ads point out flaws in your personality, in your body, in the way you dress, the way you live, and then once they have made you feel inadequate, they say, ‘Okay, we have the solution to your problem.  Buy this.’  If this happens consistently, it erodes your self-confidence and turns you into an anxious human being.

 

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